In short
A reverse mortgage lets homeowners 62 and older turn part of their home equity into cash without a required monthly mortgage payment. Most are FHA-insured HECMs. You keep living in the home and still pay property taxes, insurance and upkeep, and the loan is usually repaid when the home is sold or the last borrower moves out or passes away.
Reviewed by Jordan Carpenter, NMLS #2001895 · Last updated October 23, 2026
How does a reverse mortgage actually work?
A reverse mortgage lets homeowners 62 and older borrow against their home's equity without making a monthly mortgage payment. Instead of you paying the lender each month, the loan balance grows over time as interest and fees are added. You keep the title and keep living in the home. You do still pay property taxes, homeowners insurance, any HOA dues, and keep the home in good repair. The loan is typically repaid when the last borrower sells, moves out for good, or passes away, usually from the sale of the home. Most reverse mortgages are HECMs (Home Equity Conversion Mortgages), which are insured by the FHA, and every HECM borrower first meets with a HUD-approved counselor.
Key takeaways
If you're 62 or older and have built up equity in your home, a reverse mortgage can turn some of that equity into cash while you keep living there. It's a big decision, and it isn't right for everyone. My dad Jay and I will walk you and your family through how it works in plain English, what it costs, what you're still responsible for, and what it means for your heirs, so you can decide with clear eyes.
What a Reverse Mortgage Is
A reverse mortgage is a loan for homeowners 62 and older that turns part of your home equity into money you can use, without a required monthly mortgage payment. You stay in your home and keep the title. Rather than shrinking each month the way a regular mortgage does, the balance grows over time because interest and fees are added to it.
The most common type is the HECM (Home Equity Conversion Mortgage). HECMs are insured by the FHA (the Federal Housing Administration), which adds important protections for borrowers and their families.
How You Can Receive the Money
A HECM gives you choices in how you access your equity:
- Lump sum: one payment at closing
- Monthly payments: a set amount for a period of time or for as long as you live in the home
- Line of credit: draw what you need, when you need it
- A combination: for example, part as a line of credit and part as monthly payments
Some homeowners also use a reverse mortgage to pay off an existing mortgage so they no longer have that monthly payment. Others use a HECM to help buy a new home that better fits this stage of life.
What You're Still Responsible For
This is the part I want every client to hear clearly. "No monthly mortgage payment" does not mean no costs. To keep the loan in good standing, you still need to:
- Pay your property taxes
- Keep homeowners insurance in place
- Pay any HOA dues
- Maintain the home and keep it in good repair
- Live in the home as your primary residence
If these aren't kept up, the loan can become due. Before you apply, the lender reviews your finances to make sure these ongoing costs fit your budget. Comfortable payment, not max approval, applies here too.
Counseling Comes First
Before you can get a HECM, you'll meet with an independent, HUD-approved counselor. They'll explain the costs, the alternatives, and how the loan affects you and your estate. I encourage you to bring your spouse or adult children. Clarity beats confidence, and the more everyone understands up front, the better the decision.
What Happens for Your Heirs
The loan generally becomes due when the last borrower sells the home, moves out permanently, or passes away. At that point your heirs have options:
- Keep the home by paying off the loan, often by refinancing or using other funds
- Sell the home, repay the loan, and keep any remaining equity
- Hand the home over to the lender if they don't want to keep or sell it
With a HECM, the loan is non-recourse. In plain English: you and your heirs won't owe more than the home is worth when it's sold, even if the loan balance has grown larger. FHA insurance covers the difference.
The Trade-Offs, Honestly
A reverse mortgage uses your equity, which can mean less left for your heirs. Upfront costs, including FHA mortgage insurance and closing costs, can be higher than other options. And because the balance grows over time, it's usually best for people who plan to stay in their home for the long haul. Sometimes a HELOC, a refinance, or downsizing makes more sense, and if that's the case, I'll tell you.
Let's Talk It Through
Know your numbers first. I'll sit down with you (and your family, if you'd like), lay out how a reverse mortgage would look for your home, and compare it with your other options. Straight answers, no pressure, and plenty of time for questions.
All program details on this page are general educational information only and are not an offer to lend or a loan quote. Eligibility, costs, and guidelines vary and are subject to change. HUD-approved counseling is required for HECM loans. Contact our team for details specific to your situation.
Quick facts
- Minimum age
- 62 for HECM borrowers
- Most common type
- HECM (Home Equity Conversion Mortgage), insured by the FHA
- Monthly mortgage payment
- Not required; taxes, insurance and upkeep still due
- Counseling
- HUD-approved counseling required before you apply
- Ways to receive funds
- Lump sum, monthly payments, line of credit, or a combination
- Occupancy
- Must be your primary residence
Is this loan right for you?
Who it's for
- Homeowners 62 and older with meaningful equity who plan to stay in their home
- Retirees who want to pay off an existing mortgage and drop that monthly payment
- Homeowners who want extra cash flow or a line of credit to support retirement
- Families who want to understand every option together before deciding
Who it may not fit
- Homeowners who plan to move or sell in the next few years
- Owners who would struggle to keep up with property taxes, insurance and home maintenance
- People whose top priority is leaving as much home equity as possible to their heirs
Pros and cons
Pros
- No required monthly mortgage payment
- You keep the title and keep living in your home
- Flexible ways to receive funds: lump sum, monthly payments, line of credit, or a mix
- HECMs are FHA-insured and non-recourse, so heirs won't owe more than the home is worth
Trade-offs to weigh
- The loan balance grows over time, which uses up equity
- Upfront costs, including FHA mortgage insurance, can be higher than other options
- Property taxes, insurance, HOA dues and upkeep are still required, or the loan can come due
Frequently asked questions
Do I still own my home with a reverse mortgage?
Yes. You keep the title and keep living in your home. The lender has a lien on the home, just like with a regular mortgage, but the home is still yours.
Do I have to make monthly payments?
There's no required monthly mortgage payment. You can make payments if you want to, but you don't have to. You do still need to pay property taxes, homeowners insurance, any HOA dues, and keep the home maintained.
What happens to the home when I pass away?
The loan becomes due. Your heirs can pay it off and keep the home, sell the home and keep any equity left over after the loan is repaid, or hand the home over to the lender. With a HECM, they won't owe more than the home is worth when it's sold.
Why do I need counseling?
HUD requires every HECM borrower to meet with an independent, HUD-approved counselor first. It's there to protect you. The counselor explains costs, alternatives and how the loan affects your estate, so you can make a fully informed choice.
Can I lose my home with a reverse mortgage?
The loan can become due if you stop paying property taxes or insurance, don't maintain the home, or no longer live there as your primary residence. That's why we look closely at your budget up front, so those ongoing costs stay comfortable.
Is a reverse mortgage the right move for me?
It depends on your goals, how long you plan to stay in your home, and what you want to leave your family. Sometimes a HELOC, a refinance, or downsizing fits better. Let's run your real numbers and compare the options side by side.
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Last updated October 23, 2026 · Reviewed by Jordan Carpenter, NMLS #2001895. This page is educational and not a commitment to lend; program details change — ask for current figures.